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Gifts for Ushers

Looking for ideas for gifts for the ushers.

Generally, the groom give gifts to his groomsmen. It's traditional to provide identical items to each, however the best man gets something extra special. And a ring bearer might need something less sophisticated than the other men. Some suggestions include: cuff links, tie clip or tac, desk accessories or name plate, leather or gold engraved business card holders, pen/pencil sets, letter opener, key ring, engraved picture frames, beer mugs, shot glasses, money clips, belt or wallet, etc. Or, things they can use up but are fun like: sports or concert tickets, restaurant gift certificates, movie theater or video rental certificates.

Some people have the groomsmen also usher people into the church, in which case the above ideas apply. Some people have separate ushers whose only job is to usher people into/out of the church and are not also groomsmen. They should also be given some token gift which can be smaller/less expensive than the groomsmen gifts if you like. Some of the above may apply, or perhaps cigars if they are smokers, perhaps a framed picture of the wedding party with them in it, or if nothing else, a boutonniere for their lapel and a thank you card later expressing your gratitude.


Recommended Books about Wedding Planning
  1. FabJob Guide to Become a Wedding Planner
  2. The Ultimate Wedding Planner & Organizer, 2nd Edition
  3. The Wedding Book: The Big Book for Your Big Day
  4. What I Love About You
  5. Kindle Book: Plan the Wedding of Your Dreams The Easy, No-Hassle Way - Complete with every detail.
  6. The Groom's Instruction Manual: How to Survive and Possibly Even Enjoy the Most Bewildering Ceremony Known to Man
  7. The Engaged Groom: You're Getting Married. Read this Book.
  8. On-Camera Flash Techniques for Digital Wedding and Portrait Photography
  9. Digital Wedding Photography: Capturing Beautiful Memories
  10. Bridal Bargains, 9th Edition: Secrets to Throwing a Fantastic Wedding on a Realistic Budget
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